What Is The Law of Reciprocity?
The law of reciprocity is an unspoken and very powerful rule that our subconscious acts on without our knowledge.
When someone gives us something we give something back automatically. (AKA: What goes around comes around.)
I experienced it myself yesterday at the local farmers’ market where I do my weekly shopping and realized it only in retrospect.
I have read about the power of the law of reciprocity in books on sales as well been involved in training and workshop activities that taught the law of reciprocity, but I had never really recognized it as a force in my life until yesterday.
This Is What Happened With The Law Of Reciprocity
I am a regular and somewhat locally (in)famous customer at the market so I often get offered free products.
At one produce stand where I shop every week I asked if they had any other avocados that were riper than those on the shelf. She immediately pulled 5 from a box in the back that were VERY ripe and said you can have these for free.
To which I replied they are really ripe! Some may need thrown away and some may be partly good. (Kind of like bananas, you want your avocados ripe but not over ripe and they often look worse outside than in.)
She said she knows and that is why she was saving them to give me for free. In addition, do I want these others as well. These perfectly ripe (but still almost too ripe) ones are only 99 cents each and did I want them?
Pausing, thinking… “this is a lot of avocados”…. I took them, paid for them with other things and walked out thinking to myself… “what am I going to do with 7 avocados?”
The Power Of Law
This is powerful! Even though I was aware of the law and also thought at the time that it was too many avocados, I still gave back to her by buying them.
Today when I was cutting my avocados I thought to myself… “damn… that was the law of reciprocity. I knew at the time I did not want this many avocados but look at them all here! I cannot eat the VERY overripe ones fast enough and the ripe ones will be VERY overripe before I get to them.”
The Hare Krishnas of the 60′s knew the power of the law. At airports they gave you a flower and then you were more willing to donate money or at least take their brochure.
Use In Business – Book Your Next Party Plan Show
Use the law of reciprocity at your party plan business home show. Give your guests a free trinket, then watch the law of reciprocity go to work!
One way to do this that I found to be especially effective in booking your next party is as follows:
- Tell your host to tell their guests: “Bring a friend or an order and get a FREE gift.”
- As a matter of fact, repeat that every time you talk to her/him. Make it a mantra.
- Then, before you do your prize drawing say: “Who brought a friend or an order to the show?”
- Give all those people a gift.
- Give all the guests a gift too.
- It could be anything….
Then do your prize drawing. You will be amazed at how many of the guests who got a gift now check yes for hosting a show and become your next show hostess!
A Side Note: Avocados are really good for you. Studies have shown that a diet high in avocado will reduce blood serum cholesterol levels. The relatively low carb addition to your diet is also a good fiber source. They are great on toast instead of butter, as a snack or as a topping for many different dishes.